sweetaschoc asked:
so here`s the problem. Im a 20 year old female who is attracted to older men. i dont even pretend to understand the physchology behind it. anyways im on a long holiday staying with my parents who live abroad and last weekend i got kinda drunk and ended up kissing a guy who is married with children. this would be okay cos il never do anything obviously but theres only one place i go out around here and he is always there. do i now just totally avoid going to this place until i go home? or do i go and just pretend it didnt happen? oh yeah i also think that it was witnessed by other local people. am i making this a big deal when its not?
can i also add that it wasnt me who initiated it as i can see im going to be judged for this
so here`s the problem. Im a 20 year old female who is attracted to older men. i dont even pretend to understand the physchology behind it. anyways im on a long holiday staying with my parents who live abroad and last weekend i got kinda drunk and ended up kissing a guy who is married with children. this would be okay cos il never do anything obviously but theres only one place i go out around here and he is always there. do i now just totally avoid going to this place until i go home? or do i go and just pretend it didnt happen? oh yeah i also think that it was witnessed by other local people. am i making this a big deal when its not?
can i also add that it wasnt me who initiated it as i can see im going to be judged for this
go about your business and forget him. he might want to stay away from you, too so his wife won't find out.
pretend you forgot about it
and act like nothing happened
he got lucky
you made a mistake
end of
enjoy the rest of your holiday
No it's a big deal. Not only are you helping wreck a marriage you are giving yourself a bad reputation.. I'd stay away from him and any other person that you can't control yourself around that is married.
no you need to be care full its not your reputation that your playing with its your family's. Don't stop going out as this would look suspicious but make it clear to him that nothing else can happen
yes you are..... solution don`t do it again, if you do go all the way and have *** with him, ( but use a condom) cause if you don`t you will wonder what he was like, good as you imagine him to be or just crap, but do it just before you go *** good luck *****......